A Wedding Banquet

Friday, March 3:

‘When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not sit down at the place of honor, in case someone more distinguished than you has been invited by your host; and the host who invited both of you may come and say to you, “Give this person your place”, and then in disgrace you would start to take the lowest place. But when you are invited, go and sit down at the lowest place, so that when your host comes, he may say to you, “Friend, move up higher”; then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you. For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.’

Luke 14:8-11

Now, place cards could save us all some trouble. However, here is an opportunity to exercise the spiritual gift of humility. Real humility would mean taking a low place because you respect all guests enough to sit next to them no matter what their social standing, or achievements. You would not go to the lowest place because you hope to avoid the embarrassment of being shifted to a less prestigious seat, or to be exalted later for that matter. Wouldn’t that be hypocritical?

The recent Olympic Games were a showcase for success in doing one’s best. Pride was everywhere, both personal and national. All the participants were Olympians whether they won a medal or not. But, let’s be honest. The thrill of standing on the podium is not to be denied.

Humility is not easy in a culture that celebrates getting ahead and being “the best.” Self-esteem and confidence are good in themselves, yet it often seems that the most aggressive people with the biggest egos are the ones who succeed. Close scrutiny will reveal that this is not always true. The humble can be winners too. The gracious medalists who demonstrate sportsmanship, and balance their rightful pride with respect for everyone’s efforts, have the gift of humility. True humility does not demand self-effacement; but does require self-respect coupled with respect for others.

So hold your head up and smile as you take that “lowest place” at the wedding feast. You are guaranteed to have a very good time no matter where you sit when the cake is served.

Let us pray for the good things including love, joy, talent, and self-confidence. Then let us give thanks with generosity and humility.

Danielle Stanley

Daniellestanley@optonline.net